Five Things Love Is Not…
ohmyvivian:
erikaaastumblrrr-:
angelaluc0stco:
melissavergonio:
mm0riahfied:
shalalapaula:
justbesplendid:
Love is not selfish.
Love seeks not its own glory. Love is not self-centered. Love gives with a generous heart. It puts the needs of others before the self. Love is not self-serving. Love serves others with willingness and a glad heart. Love does not offer assistance and harbor resentment. Love does not smile through clenched teeth. Love does not wear a mask but bears its soul instead.
Love is not fickle.
Love does not profess its feelings with a lying tongue. Love does not exit the door of one lover and enter into another’s. Love does not slip away in the shadows. Love does not hide its face but stands tall in the light. Love does not melt in the midst of temptation but stands steadfast. Love does not waiver in the midst of turmoil. Love is not fleeting. It is eternal. It crosses time and space and yet remains faithful.
Love is not domineering.
Love is gentle and tender. It does not demand. Love is equality and fairness. Love shares in the difficult times as well as the good times. Love does not seek greener pastures when the going gets tough. Love remains vigilant. Love is stoic. Love expects no more of another than it is willing to give of itself.
Love is not destructive.
Love does not tear down but instead builds up. Love nurtures and heals. Love does not destroy the self or any other. Love inspires and encourages. Love does not judge or condemn. Love seeks to uplift rather than bring down. Love does not weaken but strengthens. Love is not harsh but soothing. Love is a strong foundation to build upon.
Love is not unforgiving.
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a true boyfriend
ohmyvivian:
alysynbxtch:
angelasays:
When she stares at your mouth----------Kiss her
When she pushes you or hits you like a dumb-ass cuz she thinks shes
stronger than you-----------Grab her and dont let go
When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough-------Kiss her and tell her you love her
When she’s quiet-------------Ask her whats wrong
When she ignores you------------Give her your attention
When she pulls away--------------Pull her back
When you see her at her worst-------Tell her she’s beautiful
When you see her start crying---------Just hold her and don’t say a word
When you see her walking-----------Sneak up and hug her waist from behind <3
When she’s scared--------Protect her
When she steals your favorite hoodie--------Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night
When she teases you--------------Tease her back and make her laugh
When she doesn’t answer for a long time-------reassure her that everything is okay
When she looks at you with doubt------Back yourself up
When she says that she loves you——she really does more than you can understand
When she grabs at your hands------Hold her’s and play with her fingers
When she bumps into you;-------bump into her back and make her laugh
When she tells you a secret--------keep it safe and untold
When she looks at you in your eyes---------dont look away until she does
When she says it’s over--------she still wants you to be hers
When she reposts this bulletin-----she wants you to read it
Stay on the phone with her even if she’s not saying anything
When she’s mad hug her tight and don’t let go
When she says she’s ok don’t believe it, talk with her because 10 yrs later she’ll remember you
Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her
Treat her like she’s all that matters to you
Stay up all night with her when she’s sick
Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think it’s stupid
Give her the world.
Let her wear your clothes
When she’s bored and sad, hang out with her
Let her know she’s important.
Don’t talk about other girls around her
Kiss her in the pouring rain
When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is:
“Whose ass am i kicking baby?”
Damn. Why can’t one guy have all these? OH WAIT THERE WAS ONE. I’m screwey.
I’m selfish, impatient, & a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control, & at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.
— Marilyn Monroe (via kimberlyjane) (via ayoochristy) (via angelasays) (via ohmyvivian)
ohmyvivian:
angelasays:
“Let your heart do the thinking when it comes to love, not your brain. Your heart has more experience & knows not to make the same mistakes. Your brain is only good with knowledge.”
-Angela Ibarrola
Life is pain, highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something.
— The Princess Bride (via) (via quotewhore) (via ohmyvivian)
ohmyvivian:
angelasays:
“The memories I have with you will always be kept in my heart. I promise you that.”
ohmyvivian:
angelasays:
“They say if you truly love someone/something, let if go. But what if they didn’t love you enough to come back?”
Sooner or later, you start taking yourself seriously. You know when you need a break. You know when you need a rest. You know what to get worked up about and what to get rid of. And you know when it’s time to take care of yourself, for yourself. To do something that makes you stronger, faster, more complete. Because you know it’s never too late to have a life. And never too late to change one.
— (via backseatlove) (via ayoochristy) (via ohmyvivian)
8075.) It’s not that I dislike you, even though I do. I don’t want to, I want to believe you’re a good person. It’s just, you’ve done nothing to show me you are. Ever. You’ve made huge mistakes with no regards for anyone, especially yourself, and quite frankly, you’re a bitch. Start caring, okay? We all need it.
ohmyvivian:
angelasays:
alysynbxtch:
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